lightroom is such a stinking turd and yet there is no better alternative :(
@sneak I use darktable to develop RAWs and just the filesystem to organize them. I know it's not ideal but works. One thing that I love of darktable is that it doesn't use a db for edits, but just an XML that it saves in the same directory of the original file, so it's already covered by my backup strategy.
In my software-to-try list I have a note about this one: https://rawtherapee.com but never tried before so I really don't know how it and how they reply to feedback.