@shali@kolektiva.social yeah, precisely. if i take a photo of you, how would you expect to stop me from using that photo in ways you don't like? my use of that photo has nothing to do with you, you'd have to use violence (or get someone else to use violence) to stop me from doing something with it you didn't like.
that's my point: why do people feel entitled to interfere with what other people do with their own photos simply because they appear in them?